10 Things You Should Do Before Having Anal Sex For The First Time

Want to give anal sex a try, but don't know how to avoid a mess? According to Queen, common causes of anal sex pain include not being relaxed enough, going in too hard and fast, or not using enough lube. I've listed over a dozen sex positions for anal sex so that readers of the Bad Girls Bible can try a few of them and see what works.

This means take it slow and introduce foreplay (especially if you're new to anal sex). Yes, I know, it's not exactly the sexiest advice I can give, but your butt is not gonna function the same way after your first time having anal sex. You might not like every anal sex position on this list.

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LGBTQ people; people with multiple chronic diseases; people living with HIV; people struggling with mental health challenges; people who use drugs and alcohol; dealing with multiple chronic diseases, such as: If you do use a dildo in your anal preparation, make sure to wash it thoroughly afterward before using it in your vagina.

Otherwise, you can save your money on that tool and stick to showering, douching or wet wipes to prepare for anal sex. Like your penis, the anus is full of sensitive nerve endings which can make anal play a very sensual experience. It took me a long time to stop asking guys during sex to pull out and check their penises for shit.

So you don't need to wash yourself right before you check out anal penetration, although by all means, do so if it will make you or your partner more comfortable However, you should definitely wash whatever implement you're using (a toy, a penis) so that it doesn't infect you with anything.

These can all add up to make anal sex an intense sexual experience. As an added plus, you can also use injectors with a fill of water and have the same effect as anal toy using an anal enema. If somebody tried to poke their finger through that opening it would feel snug but it'd go in pretty easy.

In addition, regardless of the sex of each partner, after the penis has been in a partner's anus, it should never be inserted into a partner's mouth without changing the condom or washing the penis off first. He's thrilled at being the first one inside her rectum and thanks to how she was preparing for anal sex with her toy it's nice and easy for him to fill her from behind and begin their butt fucking adventure.

Be careful, too, that the toy is not larger than your partner's penis or strap-on — and if you're new to anal, start small and work your way up. Opt for softer latex toys that are much less likely to cause trauma than ones made with more rigid materials.

This thinking does not work so well for HIV, since HIV can stay in the body for months before it registers on an HIV test, during which time the virus is very transmissible. But there are things you can do to have a clean anal sex experience and minimise the chances of things getting messy.